Why This Still Bothers You

Hey, my friend,

Sometimes we miss someone because our mind never got a clear answer.

When we do not understand what changed, we keep going back to the same thoughts again and again.

That slowly steals our energy and affects how we trust people and even how we trust ourselves.

But you know, more often the real problem is not the person, but it is the open question living inside you.

When that stays open, it makes your heart feel unsettled, and your mind feel busy.

And, you start carrying confusion into new relationships and new situations without even noticing it.

So if you’re going through something similar, I want to remind you that you cannot control whether others give you closure, but you can give it to yourself.

And, no, closure is not always a conversation. Sometimes it is a decision.

It is choosing to stop waiting for an explanation that may never come and deciding that your peace matters more than some unfinished answers.

Doing it brings your power back to you and allows you to stop letting the past decide how today feels.

And, soon, you stop letting old confusion shape new choices and create your own ending so your heart can rest and move forward.

So, today, open your diary or your notes app and write one clear sentence for yourself:

“I choose to stop waiting for answers and start choosing my peace.”

After that, read it aloud or silently multiple times and mean it.

I hope it will help you.

Praying for your day and your physical and mental well-being, my friend.

That is it for today, and see you tomorrow.

Take care,
Prasad Mairale
Petals of Positivity 🌸